Reader Questions For Discussion
Reena struggles to preserve the life of her unborn child. The sacrifices she makes, and the changes that occur once Tremlo is born, are quite dramatic. In one sense extreme, in another rooted in a certain reality.
What does this say about the process and pressures of motherhood?
What are some of the shifts and changes you can relate with?
2. Tremlo is born with excruciating sensitivities. It is painful for others to be near him, and this inadvertently sets up a pattern of isolation.
What might this say about childhood trauma, and how it can impact us throughout our lives?
3. Jormah is forced the leave the safety and sanctity of the tribe. Donan assures him that he is the right person to go.
What does this say about an “outsider’s” role in society?
Think of a time you felt like an outsider. What was that experience like for you?
4. Jormah meets the Carooh. Their culture and understanding of the world are very different.
What were some of the things Jormah learned from them?
What are some of the things the Carooh learned from him?
How might each of their lives have changed because of the exchange?
5. Knowledge and ritual are often passed down from one generation to another through mentorship. Mortulla is Kenectka’s mentor and Donan is Stelbin’s.
Did you have a mentor in your life? If so, what was that like?
Were you ever a mentor for someone else? How was that experience similar and/or different?
6. The Rehloy are a people with heightened sensitivities. So much so, that they need a system of psychology to balance themselves. The ‘mind-of-the-body’ is a tool or narrative they developed to look at themselves.
Is there a modern equivalent?
How might we benefit from such a system?
7. In several places the book personifies nature.
How might thinking of nature as a living being change our relationship to it?
8. The Rehloy’s perceptions of the world contributed to the creation of their culture.
Can you think of examples of a worldview that shaped the Carooh? The Ontarans?
What are some examples of how our own worldview shapes our culture?
9. The process of colonization is one of the underlying threads to the story. The story of a technological culture overcoming an indigenous one is seen throughout history.
How might indigenous cultures typically survive in the aftermath?
What is the role of ritual?
All chapters about the Rehloy begin with quotes. Some are philosophical, some psychological, some winsome. They are designed to convey their mindset and world view.
Here are a few examples and questions to reflect on:
1. “The light we cast, is what we see.” –Early Ruminations
What does this mean to you?
Can you site examples from your own life?
2. “What we touch, touches us.
We know ourselves by the other.” —Early Ruminations.
How does the outside world give shape to our ideas of ourselves?
—And Furthermore (see next question)—
3. “Soft thoughts beside a waterfall.
Harsh thoughts in the blazing sun,
Inner states look for invitation.” — Elements
How do external events influence what we think and how we feel in a given moment?
4. “A leaf from a distance is a leaf.
A leaf held close, a universe.” — Land Speak
What does this say about our perception of reality?
5. “Clouds block the sun’s rays.
Moods, our inner light.” — Land Speak
What is the sun in relation to the clouds?
Who are we separate from our moods?
How can it help to remember this in any given moment?
6. “To love without owning is love.
To own what one loves is greed.” — Ruminations
This is a strong statement.
What do you think the author means?
How does this relate to the idea of unconditional love?
7. “False prayer asks,
True prayer celebrates.” —Ethial
What’s the difference between asking for help and being in a state of grace?
Can they be related?
8. “Lose everything, find yourself.
Find yourself, find everything.” — Ethial
What does one have to lose in order to find oneself?
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